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Dame Joanna Lumley opens up on stress, adventure and ageing gracefully

<p>After a stellar career that has seen her become an award winner, a dame, a comedy legend, and a household name, Joanna Lumley knows a thing or two about balancing priorities. </p> <p>In a candid interview with <a href="https://www.goodhousekeeping.com/uk/lifestyle/a43008716/dame-joanna-lumley-april-interview/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>Good Housekeeping</em></a>, the 76-year-old opened up about the stress she handles in her everyday life and the importance of realising you can slow down. </p> <p>After speaking honestly about experiencing a stress-induced breakdown in her 20s due to burnout, she says she approaches life very differently these days. </p> <p>"I will never, ever misread anything so badly again in my life," she says. </p> <p>"Now, if I’m tired, I will make sure to put my head down and go to sleep. If there’s something completely awful happening, I deal with it head-on or I let it go. I don’t do stress any more; I won’t let myself go there."</p> <p>Despite learning how to slow down when it comes to work, there's nothing Joanna loves more than adventure, with her work recently taking her to the Banda Islands, Zanzibar and Madagascar for a new series exploring the centuries-old spice trade.</p> <p>"You can have an adventure at any age," she says. </p> <p>"I’m not saying everyone should go and do a 14-day trek up some very steep mountains. But, if you’re like me and you’re scared of something, be brave. Chances are, you’ll come back and say: 'Well, wasn’t that something?"'</p> <p>When not travelling to explore every corner of the globe, Joanna finds solace in her latest creative venture: a podcast, called Joanna &amp; The Maestro, which she hosts with her conductor husband, Stephen Barlow.</p> <p>The couple chat about their shared love of classical music, which Joanna revealed was born out of one of the pair's evening rituals. </p> <p>"Every night, I have a bath and listen to Classic FM while Stevie is in the bedroom reading. During my bath, I’ll shout out questions about the music, such as: 'How old was Tchaikovsky when he wrote this?'" she says.</p> <p>"Without fail, Stevie, who’s a musical genius, patiently puts his book down and answers me. So the podcast is me in conversation with him, asking all the silly questions that somebody like me has."</p> <p>The pair first met when Joanna was 31 and they've been married for more than 35 years, but Joanna explained that marriage wasn't always on the cards.</p> <p>"The truth is, if I wasn’t married to Stevie, I wouldn’t be married," she says. </p> <p>"I’ve always loved men, but I never thought: 'Oh, I want to settle down.' It simply didn’t cross my mind. But there was something different about him; I was drawn to his whole mindset – and his knowledge of music."</p> <p>While Joanna is always keeping busy with her various work ventures, one of her most incredible achievements remains when she was awarded a damehood from Princess Anne: even if she fumbled over her words while meeting the royal. </p> <p>“I was met by Princess Anne, but sadly I was so overwhelmed with emotion that I could barely speak," she says.</p> <p>"I apologised and she said: 'Don’t worry, you have a lovely brim on your hat.' She kept on talking before I curtseyed and went out into the Picture Gallery. Stevie was there waiting and I just burst into tears."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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5 minutes with author Joanna Nell

<p><span>In <em>5 minutes with author</em>, <em>Over 60</em> asks book writers about their literary habits and preferences. Next in this series is Joanna Nell, author and GP based in Sydney’s Northern Beaches. She won an Emerging Writer’s award from the Henry Lawson Society in 2014, and has written short stories for a number of magazines, journals and anthologies ever since. Her debut novel, <em>The Single Ladies of Jacaranda Retirement Village </em>became a national bestseller, and its follow-up <em>The Last Voyage of Mrs Henry Parker</em> is set to be released in October.</span></p> <p><em><span>Over 60</span></em><span> spoke with Nell to talk about blind date with a book, her go-to authors for mood boosters, and why she consumes books in all forms.</span></p> <p><strong><span><em>Over 60</em>: What is your best writing tip?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Joanna Nell: Keep a notebook and pen next to the bed. I’ve lost track of the number of brilliant ideas that have come to me in the middle of the night, ones that I was absolutely, positively certain I’d remember in the morning. And didn’t.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: What book(s) are you reading right now?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: I’m reading the hilariously entertaining yet poignant <em>Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows</em> by Balli Kaur Jaswal, and for research purposes, dipping into the delightful <em>Your Backyard Birds</em> by Dr Grainne Cleary.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: What is your favourite literary character?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: My favourite literary character would have to be the charming Count Alexander Rostov (recipient of the Order of Saint Andrew, member of the Jockey Club, Master of the Hunt) from <em>A Gentleman in Moscow</em> by Amor Towles.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: What book do you think more people should read?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: People should read the book that they would never normally pick up. Experimenting with a new author or genre can take the reader of on the most unexpected and exciting journey. That’s why I’m a huge fan of “Blind Date With A Book” initiatives run by bookshops and libraries.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: Paperback, e-book or audiobook?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: All three. I buy paperbacks to support my local independent booksellers, e-books when I’m travelling (or so impatient I can’t wait until the shops open), and listen to non-fiction and memoir on audiobooks whilst walking the dog or driving.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: What genre do you read for fun?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: I read a wide variety of genres for pleasure – anything and everything. When I need an instant pick-me-up however, my go-to authors are humorists such as Alan Bennett, David Sedaris and SJ Perelman. The brilliantly observed <em>Talking Heads</em> monologues by Alan Bennett are my all-time laugh-out-loud favourite. </span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: If you could only read five books for the rest of your life, what titles would you choose?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: Five? That’s tricky. Even Marie Kondo is more lenient! If however, I was forced (at gun point) to whittle my beloved books down, I’d chose <em>The English Patient</em> by Michael Ondaatje, <em>On Writing</em> by Stephen King, <em>The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat</em> by Oliver Sacks, <em>The Vanishing Act of Esme Lennox</em> by Maggie O’Farrell and <em>Black Beauty</em> by Anna Sewell. Five very different books for five very different reasons.</span></p> <p><strong><span>O60: Which trope grinds your gears?</span></strong></p> <p><span>Nell: I love a good crime novel but I’m tired of reading about young, beautiful dead girls. In 2019, I feel it’s time for authors to move on from violence against women and use their imagination when creating more original murder victims.</span></p>

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